Baltimore Catholics can now have that outdoor wedding they’ve dreamed of

[Another “exception” that may soon become the rule?  For example, vernacular instead of Latin at Mass, receiving Communion standing rather than kneeling as well as in the hand rather than on the tongue, the very ordinary “extradordinary” ministers of Communion, girls replacing (or driving out?) boys as altar servers, “ecumenical” marriages (where one of the parties is not Catholic) in a non-Catholic church or civil setting (i.e., by a judge or JP), cremation instead of burial! – AQ Tom] 


According to The Baltimore Sun, Charm City’s most beautiful wedding venues include the National Aquarium, where you can snap photos in front of a dolphin tank, the George Peabody Library, which costs a cool $7,500 to rent, no catering included, and The Cloisters, a castle-like venue that has been featured on “Homicide: Life on the Streets” and “The Wire.”

Couples in Baltimore who wanted to get married at any of those locations—or in a field, or on a beach—in a ceremony that included a Catholic priest or deacon would have been out of luck. Until now.

The Archdiocese of Baltimore recently launched (this past Valentine’s Day, as it happens) a 12-month trial period during which couples can seek permission to hold Catholic weddings outside churches and chapels. The new policy states that the preferred location for weddings is still the home parish of the bride or groom, but it allows for holding weddings at other locations, including outdoors. Couples must approach a priest at least six months before their desired wedding date, and the priest must then seek special approval from the archdiocese.

Dianne Barr, the archdiocese’s chancellor, told America that the policy went into effect in February and that about 50 applications have been approved. “So far, the requests for a particular request have been well thought out,” she said, adding that some couples who had already planned ceremonies outside a church with an officiant who is not a Catholic priest or deacon have learned about the new policy and sought to include a Catholic minister.

Decisions are made on a case-by-case basis, Ms. Barr said, and some locations are still off limits, including casinos, bars and nightclubs [but not hotels with banquet facilities, some of which have “non-denominational” wedding chapels attached! – AQ Tom]. Though Baltimore is located on the water, boats are also off limits because of the possibility that during the ceremony, the boat could float into jurisdiction not covered by the archdiocese or the appropriate civil authorities. For outdoor ceremonies, locations must have an indoor facility available in the event of inclement weather, and the standard norms for a Catholic ceremony must be followed, including the use of sacred music.

Nationally, the number of Catholic, sacramental weddings has plummeted since 1964, when more than 350,000 were celebrated, according to the Center for Applied Research in the Apostolate. In 2016, the number had fallen to 144,148.

The Archdiocese of Baltimore is not the first Catholic diocese in the United States to allow weddings outside of churches—the Diocese of Helena, Mont., began allowing outdoor weddings in 2015—but it is still very rare. (Canon law stipulates that Catholic weddings should take place in the couple’s home parish but states that with permission of the bishop or priest “marriages can be celebrated elsewhere.”)

The change in Baltimore was instituted after priests in the archdiocese asked Archbishop William E. Lori for permission to celebrate weddings in non-Catholic spaces, citing mounting requests from parishioners. Couples who seek permission for these kinds of ceremonies are still required to complete pre-marriage counseling, and while most ceremonies will likely not include a Mass, Ms. Barr said that if a couple requested one, the priest could seek permission from the archdiocese.

Ms. Barr said that at the end of the trial period, the archdiocese will collect data to learn who is requesting permission for these kinds of ceremonies and whether priests have found them helpful.

“We’re looking to learn first of all, who’s asking for it? Is one Catholic and the other unbaptized? A Catholic and a non-Catholic?” Ms. Barr said, adding that so far, most of the applications have included couples like this. “Where are they located? What are their ages?” She said she hopes the ceremonies may serve as “an invitation” to couples to continue participating in the church’s sacramental life.

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